ThoughtTots

ThoughtTots

A screen-free-ish way to get past "fine" and "good" at dinner, in the car, or at bedtime. Tap the deck, read the question out loud, everyone answers — including you.

Two modes:

• Big Kid — 175 open-ended questions across 7 categories: Daily Life, Feelings, Family, Friendship, Dreams, Values, and Silly.
• Little One — 40 simpler this-or-that and show-me prompts for younger kids who aren't ready for open-ended reflection yet.

How to use it:

• Tap the card to draw a new question, or swipe left — no repeats until the round runs out. Swipe right to go back and re-read the previous card.
• Tap category chips to focus on certain topics, or use All / None to reset.
• Tap ☆ on a card to save it to Favorites, then switch to the Favorites tab to shuffle through just your saved cards — tap any of them in the list to jump straight back. Tap + to add your own questions. Tap ⏱ to time an answer. Tap 💡 on a Big Kid card for a coaching tip. Tap ⚙ to turn on optional Family Streak or Silly Points tracking.

Optional: who's playing?

Add names now so they're ready to go if you turn on Silly Points later — this list is shared with the leaderboard, so you only ever manage it in one place.

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Settings

Turn these on if your family wants them — off by default.

Leaderboard

Unlock all 6 categories

Silly and Little One mode are free to use for as long as you like. Unlocking adds 150 more cards across Daily Life, Feelings, Family, Friendship, Dreams, and Values — the same research-grounded coaching tips, follow-ups, and category insights on every one of them.

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